Sunday, 28 July 2013

The Cloud & The Sand Dune

'Good morning,' the cloud said. 'What's life like down there?'
'I have the company of the other dunes, of the sun and the wind, and of the caravans that occasionally pass through here. Sometimes it's really hot, but it's still bearable. What's life like up there?'
'We have the sun and the wind too, but the good thing is I can travel across the sky and see more things.'
'For me,' said the dune, 'life is short. When the wind returns from the forests, I will disappear.'
'And does that make you sad?'
'It makes me feel that I have no purpose in life.'
'I feel the same. As soon as another wind comes along, I'll go south and be transformed into rain; but that is my destiny.'
The dune hesitated for a moment, then said:
'Did you know that here in the desert, we call the rain paradise?'
'I had no idea I could ever be that important,' said the cloud proudly.
'I've heard other older dunes tell stories about the rain. They say that, after the rain, we are all covered with grass and flowers. But I'll never experience that, because in the desert it rains so rarely.'
It was the cloud's turn to hesitate now. Then he smiled broadly and said:
'If you like, I can rain on you now. I know I've only just got here, but I love you, and I'd like you to stay here for ever.'
'When I first saw you up in the sky, I fell in love with you too,' said the dune. 'But if you transform your lovely white hair into rain, you will die.'
'Love never dies,' said the cloud. 'It is transformed, and besides, I want to show you what paradise is like.'
And he began to caress the dune with little drops of rain, so that they could stay together for longer, until a rainbow appeared.
The following day, the little dune was covered in flowers. Other clouds that passed over, heading for Africa, thought that it must be part of the forest they were looking for and scattered more rain. Twenty years later, the dune had been transformed into an oasis that refreshed travellers with the shades of its trees.
And all because, one day, a cloud fell in love, and was not afraid to give his life for that love.

P.S. Somehow the lovely story above reminds me of my late husband who has just passed away last week on Saturday morning. He was a kind hearted person who has 'touched' many. May Allah bless his soul and may he be placed with those whom He has bestowed His Grace in jannah. Ameen.

Tuesday, 4 June 2013

Life As It is

Ha ha ha...! The stuff that we put up with our spouses! 

My last post has triggered a hilarious discussion about our spouses antics and quirks. And funnily enough I have discovered that there are a number of common habits among men which wives have to grin and bear with. I should change that. It should be grit and bear it instead. Ha ha ha!

Wait. In case you are still lost, we are talking about the 3 stages of marriage between the honeymoon stage and the comfort stage. Ok. Back to the story.

The fact that we can laugh about it shows that we have accepted or come to term with it and decided to move on. There are just some things that cannot be changed. Yes, thats right! You can change their  wardrobe and even arrange a total make over but you can never change some habits that they seem to have been born with. So take it or take your leave! You either live with it and just continue to be baffled for the rest of your life or die trying (to make the change)! Hee....

By the way, the meaning of "grin and bear it" by Cambridge dictionaries online is "to accept something bad without complaining". My friends, please take note of the the last two words. Without complaining.  May I just take a moment to remind you: You know just as much how men hate to be nagged at, so no complaining and nagging please. Hurry up and go to stage 4 already! 

Well anyway. Since its Father's Day this month, here's wishing that all fathers will be the light of the life of their children, with or without their adorable antics and quirks! 

P.S. I wonder if men are having a good laugh over their wives behavior too...