Note to Self

Every now and then we need to remind ourself that we can plan every little thing even to the tiniest little detail but the final outcome is still up to God. So we just need to do our our best and then leave the rest in the hand of Allah.

This is the exact same advice that I gave to my two girls whenever they are facing challenges especially an important exam. Usually nearer to the big date, they get so nervous and start to be jittery.

I guess being young its not so easy to immediately accept the fact that whatever the result or outcome, though it may not be what we want, it is actually what is good for us.

Every parents want their children to do the top of the class and its not wrong for us to give them a gentle push to work a little bit harder if they want their desired result. Nevertheless we must always remind them that there so much that we can do and whatever the result will be it will be good. This will ease off a little pressure on their fragile shoulder.

And that is also a good reminder to us adult too.

Salam and good nite.